who you are vs who are you

Sometimes, i feel like what i am doing is okay. I am just fine. But people keep talking behind your back (some of them are true) so... I change myself to be better. But it just you feel that you does not suit in that "you". Am i trying hard to please people? Or it me myself that have to change for good? Plus, i dont know who am i and who i am. But one thing for sure, i live to please Allah. And when you please Allah, everything will be okay. Sooner or later. My name is Asiah and forever Asiah. That's who i am.